Then one night, I made up a silly story about a little birdie named Hobo and his little brother named Rex (if I'd known the Hobo and Rex stories would catch on, I would have made their names better). My 3-year-old daughter latched onto Hobo and Rex that night, and the nightly routine transformed into my having to tell her 3 stories about Hobo and Rex, not just 3 stories in general. So for the past 6 months or so, I've been coming up with 3 Hobo and Rex stories every night. I wish I'd written them down. I'd have a novel at this point. I have been incredibly bored with Hobo and Rex the past few months, and foresaw years of having to make up stupid stories about those 2 birds.
Tonight, as my kids were getting dressed for bed, I mentioned to my daughter that I used to suck my thumb as a child. Hooray! A new bedtime story genre has entered her mind. Tonight, I started to tell her 3 stories about Hobo and Rex, and she stopped me and said, "No, Mama. Tell me 3 stories about you!" I was delighted to get to do something different.
Which brings me to the point of this post - what makes us remember what we do? The first 3 stories about myself when I was little that came to mind were:
1) The time I had the chicken pox and there was a ton of snow on the ground. We lived in the DC Metro area and lots of snow was rare. I wanted to go out and play in the snow so badly but I was sick. I remember looking out the window of the side door and being crushed that I couldn't play in the snow. I was probably 6 or so at the time, and the snow probably wasn't that deep, but it seemed like it to a kid. My mom finally relented and I got to go play outside for just a few minutes. I think I also remember my dad laughing at a neighbor's pet (cat? dog?) making tunnels in the snow because it was so deep.
2) The time we had to hunt for Easter eggs in the house because it was cold/raining and we lost one. My mom didn't hard boil them because she didn't want to have to eat 3 dozen hard boiled eggs, so they were just raw. We managed to find all of the eggs but one. I recall that one egg being missing for weeks, and my dad finally found it because of the smell. Again, I think I was 5 or 6? I think it was in our old house (we moved when I was 7).
3) The time I walked over to my friend Karen's house (again, when we lived in the old neighborhood) and we made kid-sized "bird's nests" from all of the leaves in her backyard. I remember it was fall (obviously) and cold, and I remember sitting on the cold ground in the middle of my "nest." I don't remember whether or not I thought it was fun, just that we did it.
How random are those? I can see where the chicken pox memory might stick, but why the bird's nests with Karen? I probably played at Karen's house thousands of times, but I couldn't tell you one other thing that we did, or even tell you what her house looked like. I think it might have been green? I remember that the wires from the power lines went right into the side of her house, which was weird to me as a kid. I believe at our house the lines went into the ground then into the house, but I digress. I think about the things that I remember from being a kid and I have to wonder why those memories stick, but other ones that you'd think would be more substantial, completely fade. Just curious, I guess.
Off the subject, my husband is watching movie previews because we're trying to pick a flick to watch tonight, and I just have to add, in closing, that Ed Harris is the mac-daddy. He kicks ass in every movie I've seen him in. Thank you.
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